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Hatin' A B**es on Myspace and Hoodstars!

Thu, 31 Jul 2008 03:10:56 GMT

Yea, I just got finished reading a comment from a pic in my photostrip or whateva and some dumb ass, stupid, dont-have-anything-to-do-with-herself posted an offensive comment, calling me out my name! I kno they say haters r suppose to be ur motivators, but I heated that someone would post something offensive about me! I treat everyone with respect online(people don't kno who u really are, so I try to be as nice as possible), so for someone to do so to me gets me very heated and I will talk about it until the "muthafuckin wheels fall off"!

Just my advice to anyone who wants to comment negatively and offensively about someone online: Don't do it!!! If u don't like something u see or feel like u wanna be "bad" or "angry" and put others down, then step away from ur computer and get fresh air...like now!!! Believe or not, people have "online wars" and online arguments!

That's all I got to say! Just everyone treat everyone with respect and it will come back to u....vice versa too!

Much luv, peace and blessings to everyone!!!
Bye for now!

So u love him...He treats u wrong...But do u love urself?!

Fri, 04 Jul 2008 03:49:48 GMT

I see and hear alot of women doing things for guys that treat them like s**t(bleeped for my young readers) and they still continue to do things for them.What the hell is wrong with this?! Alot of things is wrong with this!!!

I once was in a relationship and I fell victim to this. I gave this guy everything and what he did, did not mount up to what I did for him. I really didn't love myself, so that was why I did that. Chasing him around and picking him up, even when he was like 50 miles away and taking him back!

I was doing this because I thought that he would love me the same way I loved him in return but I was wrong. Guys love differently from girls, so that's what happened!

My advice to all u ladies out there in a situation like this, Learn to love urself by maybe finding something u like to do! That way u will not be a his every beck and call when HE needs u and maybe spend some time away from each other or separate!

Tell me what y'all think! Leave a comment after reading!

Please Love Urself...Or at Least Learn to Luv urself!!!

Fri, 04 Jul 2008 03:42:40 GMT

There was a blog that I just got finished reading and that's what sparked my blog that I'm writing now! The young lady is a big girl and she said that she loved her size and I commented I'm glad that u love ur size because too many big women don't feel the same way as you do!

We as ladies, young or old, black or white, short or tall, need to learn how to love ourselves like that big young lady has! Even myself had trouble in the past with learning to love myself and I'm a petite pretty girl. I always would think, "Oh, I wish I had a bigger butt" or "I wish I was taller", but when it subdue urself to these types of time-consuming negative thoughts, ur taking energy away from what u can do to perfect what u have.

Like now I am a little thicker, but don't see the difference in how many "hollas" I get from guys; it's still the same. They really just look at my beauty and not by booty...Lol, tryna be funny!

Alot of women who don't love themselves do self-deconstructing things to themselves and they really don't realize it until its too late. That's why many women have eating disorders and just really low self-esteem!

My advice: Replace negative thoughts about what u don't have with positive thoughts!
Also do something constructive with ur time to help urself to love u better, like what's ur hobby?(dancing,singing, writing(very stress-relieving), cooking, acting, modeling, or anything that u can possibly think of because when u are doing something positive u won't focus on the negative and eventually it will diminish and the positive u will come to the surface!
If u don't know what u like or have too many ideas(like myself), then designate time to each activity to see which one u like better and then go with the one u like!

That's the end and I hope u ladies learn to love urselves

Peace, Love, And Blessings
Bye now!!!

Hey Everyone!

Sat, 28 Jun 2008 17:30:10 GMT

Hey, I haven't posted any meaningful blog entries lately, but I just posting this so my page won't be idle and y'all won't forget me! Bye for now and look out for when I post another blog entry!

Hey Everyone!

Sun, 22 Jun 2008 05:43:41 GMT

I haven't written a blog entry in like 2 days so Im writing one now! I'm just saying hi!

So u want everyone to like u!

Thu, 19 Jun 2008 02:25:41 GMT

Well, everyone's not gonna like u, even you are exceptionally nice to them and give the last piece of cloth "off ur back", people may still S**t on you! Believe me, I've spent too much time TRYING to be nice to people so they will like me! That doesn't work, people got whateva opinion they have of u already and it can be the most dumbest reason in the world!!! They won't change(start liking u) their personality or their attitude for u!

When u do this people think that ur a pushover and may try to take advantage of u! They even know that ur so nice so they will put u down to make themselves feel good about themselves when ur better than them!!!

My advice on this is to just let go of being nice to people who don't do the same in return and do more for those who do appreciate it!

Tell me what u think! Bye for now!

True Meanings of Bad Dreams!!!!

Thu, 19 Jun 2008 02:18:58 GMT

Bad dreams are manifestation of ur fears! Like I dreamed that my little sister got lost and couldn't be found! My fear for this is that I fear her going outside by herself because she may get shot or someone may try to take her, so there you have it, my fear manifestated in my dream.

When you have bad dreams like these, I dont think it'll happen but just showing what you fear the most when ur unconscious, which sometimes can be scary! I think if u have bad dreams like these, you should talk to someone about if it bothers you alot(I've had some dreams that I thought was real!). You know someone to talk to and that may be all you need.

Are Black Women Angry??????????

Thu, 19 Jun 2008 02:14:22 GMT

yeah, today on my way to school, I was listening to the radio! I was listening to a D.C. station named WKYS (93.9 frequency) and they were talking about a reporter on Fox News(the station may be wrong) and he said that Michelle Obama was an angry black woman.

He also went on to say that black women are angry because their sons are getting shot in drive-bys(who wouldn't;Oh I guess he wouldn't be angry if his son got shot in a drive-by) and that we are just purely angry! I don't think she is angry because she's making a point when she speaks and it comes across as "angry", instead of "strong"! If she was quiet and timid, no one would get her drift and be moved by her and wouldn't consider listening to what message she was trying to make! Guess that's what men are used to; someone who will "back into a corner" and stay there! But they[men] fail to realize that women like that, don't make great partners and may even bring u down!

ALL BLACK WOMEN ARE NOT ANGRY!!!!!!

Sometimes when Black women are angry, it's because they were involved in a relationship that they put their all into and all they got was S**T out of it. This happens to alot of young women and because it happened when they were young, it leaves lasting impressions on their outlook of relationships with men! They may appear, in a relationship, to be insecure or bitchy!

You also have alot of Black women who didn't have fathers in their home as children, not even a father figure! Because of this they have to look after themselves and "take up" for themselves(something that fathers should do when their daughters are young), so they tend to develop "masculine" qualities; makes them androynous(please excuse my spelling)! These Black women know that the only to get things in life is to be agressive(another man quality) or they will never succeed. They find things they are passionate about and "run with it" until they get it! But when they feel strong about something, it makes them look bitter, angry, or any other negative feeling you wanna throw out there, when this is not the case! But men do this all the time; be passionate and strong in what they want to do, but when women do it, it's negative!

I absolutely hate that things have to be like this and was totally disgustedwith the reporter's response!

We as Black women have to rise and "keep it moving" and don't respond to IGNORANT responses from people like that!

Tell me what yall think! Black, White, male, female; just let me know!!!!

Guys tryna get wit me on myspace like its a dating service...Lol

Tue, 17 Jun 2008 01:59:03 GMT

I know that you can use myspace for dating as a reason, but my profile just says "networking and friends" for purpose of why I'm there! But a couple of guys in my hometown are tryin get my number so I can hit them up and hang out!
After looking at THS Dating Nightmares, which of most of the stories were about people who met online! It seems dangerous to me because I don't know these people and don't know if the profile pic is the true them! One guy even gave me his number and I'm like "I'm not gonna call you because I really don't know u; don't know the true u!"
I got on myspace to network and chat but not get serious and be talking to people in person; it seems safe online, so I wanna keep it like that!
That's just my opinion on it and don't wanna get hurt or killed because of a poor decision!
I also be avoiding the question at all cost of them asking for my number and real name; for the name, I gave them a nickname(it feels safer!!!)
Well, gotta go, Bye for now!!!

I had this dream last night....

Tue, 17 Jun 2008 01:14:29 GMT

I had this dream last night that these people had came to me; like 3 people with cameras. They started taking my picture and asking for me my autography and everything. The dream was mad because in my conscious I wanna be famous for something and well liked like a celebrity. I probably had this dream because this fact is in my conscious; your dreams can bring up your fears and wants!

So I just wanted to share that! I one day wanna publish a book and go back to songwriting. I am currently working on my beauty care website(would tell URL but under construction at moment).

Maybe one day this dream will come true....aint gonna bet my dollars on it...Lol!!!!

sexymocha's Hoodstars

Hatin' A** B****es on Myspace and Hoodstars!

So u love him...He treats u wrong...But do u love urself?!

Please Love Urself...Or at Least Learn to Luv urself!!!

Hey Everyone!

Hey Everyone!

So u want everyone to like u!

True Meanings of Bad Dreams!!!!

Are Black Women Angry??????????

Guys tryna get wit me on myspace like its a dating service...Lol

I had this dream last night....

Hatin' A B**es on Myspace and Hoodstars!