There was a blog that I just got finished reading and that's what sparked my blog that I'm writing now! The young lady is a big girl and she said that she loved her size and I commented I'm glad that u love ur size because too many big women don't feel the same way as you do!
We as ladies, young or old, black or white, short or tall, need to learn how to love ourselves like that big young lady has! Even myself had trouble in the past with learning to love myself and I'm a petite pretty girl. I always would think, "Oh, I wish I had a bigger butt" or "I wish I was taller", but when it subdue urself to these types of time-consuming negative thoughts, ur taking energy away from what u can do to perfect what u have.
Like now I am a little thicker, but don't see the difference in how many "hollas" I get from guys; it's still the same. They really just look at my beauty and not by booty...Lol, tryna be funny!
Alot of women who don't love themselves do self-deconstructing things to themselves and they really don't realize it until its too late. That's why many women have eating disorders and just really low self-esteem!
My advice: Replace negative thoughts about what u don't have with positive thoughts!
Also do something constructive with ur time to help urself to love u better, like what's ur hobby?(dancing,singing, writing(very stress-relieving), cooking, acting, modeling, or anything that u can possibly think of because when u are doing something positive u won't focus on the negative and eventually it will diminish and the positive u will come to the surface!
If u don't know what u like or have too many ideas(like myself), then designate time to each activity to see which one u like better and then go with the one u like!
That's the end and I hope u ladies learn to love urselves
Peace, Love, And Blessings
Bye now!!!

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